There are a whole lot of women out there who want to hook up with guys. They love sex and they want to have as much of it as they possibly can. Most of these women will spend their entire lives without a single hook up, though. That’s because they’re afraid of doing it. You don’t have to look far to find someone telling you that casual sex is extremely dangerous. Anything can be dangerous, but sex doesn’t have to be. It all comes from an outdated view of sex outside of marriage. You’re told that it’s dangerous just to keep you from doing it. You just have to do a few things to hook up safely.
Have a Friend to Text
The first thing you want to do is have a friend standing by to get your text. That’s pretty much the most important thing that you can do. This friend should be ready to go looking for you if they don’t hear from you. Tell them you’ll text them once an hour while you’re out. It doesn’t have to be a lot. Just have someone you can let know that you’re safe.
Meet in a Public Place
You want to meet in a public place for the very first time. You don’t have to spend the entire night there. You just want to be able to get a good sense of the other person before you go ahead and make your way to their bedroom. It will also give your friend a good place to call if they don’t hear from you. If you don’t text them and the people at the restaurant or bar don’t see you, it’s time to raise the warning levels. It will also give you a reason to try out some new food and drinks.
Take it on your Chest
There are also some women out there who don’t hook up simply out of a fear of getting pregnant. That’s a valid one. Nothing seems worse than getting pregnant by a guy who you’re never going to see again. The most obvious solution for this is condoms. They’ll get you most of the way there. If you want some extra protection, make it a little kinky. Have the guy bang you until he’s about to blow. Then you want to pull it out and take off the condom if he’s wearing one. Jerk him off all over your chest and that baby batter will never get anywhere near your ovaries. You’ll probably even get a guy who’s willing to do whatever you want to your nether region if you promise to take his load all over your boobs again. Guys just love that.
Follow your Gut
Finally, just follow your gut. It’s not that difficult. It’s that thing telling you that maybe you shouldn’t follow someone home. It’s telling you that you’ve had too much to drink and you’re making poor decisions. Just go with your gut in all things and you’ll always be safe from preventable harm. If you want to talk about real danger, we can talk about crossing the street. That’s the thing you need to avoid!