I know that I don’t have to explain my actions to anyone. I guess I’ve just been trying to figure out why hook ups work for me. I’m much more likely to visit a hook up site to find a guy than I am to visit a traditional dating site. I’m not doing it in the hopes that I’ll change someone’s mind, either. I’m just legitimately looking for a hook up and nothing more. It just leads me to question why I prefer them. Most women my age are either married or desperately looking for a husband. What is it that makes me different?
I Like Younger Men
The first reason I end up on hook up sites is that I like much younger men. I mean, much younger. I just can’t get into the guys my age. They don’t have the energy that it takes to satisfy me in the bedroom. Plus they just don’t look as hot. I like a rock hard body with a rock hard cock that can go all night. I’m more than okay with trading that for experience. I’m also more than happy to put in the effort of teaching someone how to go down on me for the night. This isn’t really something that I can find on a traditional dating site. There aren’t really that many younger guys who want to start relationships with older women. We’re kind of like their dirty little secrets and I absolutely love that. It’s even better when the guy has a girlfriend his own age. If he wants to sneak out when she’s asleep to come and have sex with a much more experienced woman, it just gets me ready for action. I’m practically cumming by the time he walks through the door at the simple thought of it.
I Hate Passionate Sex
One of the biggest reasons that I hook up is that I simply can’t stand passionate sex. I hate all of the kissing and all of the looking into each other’s eyes. It grosses me out. I just don’t like it. I have no interest in ever being that intimate with anyone on this planet. When I have sex, I want to be fucked. I want to be bent over and plowed until I can’t walk anymore. I want him to pull out and shoot his load all over my face while he calls me a whore. That’s the kind of sex that I seek out and it’s what I need to have a good time. If you think sex is crawling on top of someone and slowly gyrating your hips until one of you has a light orgasm, then keep moving. You can find what you’re looking for on the dating sites. That’s not what I’m about. I want to feel the guy inside me. I want him to unleash all of his passion all over my tits and never call me again. That’s what does it for me.
I Actually Like Sex with Strangers
That all leads to my next reason. I really like having sex with strangers. Once again, it’s just a part of me that I can’t explain. I fucking love it. The less I know about you, the better the sex is going to be for me. In fact, I have this fantasy that I’m trying to work out right now. I want to get a hotel room for the night and just lie naked in bed with my ass up in the air. I want to be blindfolded and I want to post an ad on my profile with my room number. Then any guy that wants to blow his load can just come in and fuck me for as long as he needs. I’ll never see his face and he’ll never see mine. We’ll just be two complete strangers having sex in a strange bed. I know that there are lots of reasons that I should never, ever do this. Like I said, it’s just a fantasy. I doubt I’ll ever make it happen, but it lets you know exactly where I’m coming from on this and that’s why I bring it up.
I can try New Things
I think the biggest reason that I use hook up sites is that I can try new things every time I have sex. I’m not just forced to do the same thing over and over again. I can really test my own limits and have a good time. Last week, for instance, I was really into the idea of having sex with a couple. I must have been watching something that made me think of it and I just couldn’t get it out of my mind. It was all I could think about when I settled in for my nightly masturbation sessions. All I had to do was a little search and I was able to find more than enough couples willing to invite me over. I wound up with a very nice couple that lived right down the street from me. They introduced me to the world of swinging and I don’t think I’ll ever end up leaving it. I definitely wouldn’t have been able to do that with a traditional dating site. I think I’ll try having sex with a lesbian next. I’ve always wondered what it would be like with just another woman.
Seek out what you want
If you’re reading this and still on the fence about giving into your crotch, I say just go for it. You’ll feel better after you do it. Just take the plunge and let your desires be your guide. There’s nothing at all holding you back except yourself. Get out there on a hook up site and just see where things lead. I can guarantee that you’ll never want to go back to looking for relationships again. Hook up and just enjoy the experience of feeling good over and over again for yourself.